There is a point when you are searching when the trail drys up. The emails stop, the winks, and the my favorites stop. Is it time to move on to the next site or is it just time to give up? The upgrade did not work. I thought if I put out there that I was not like all the other women born in this area, you know those that are looking for someone to take care of them. Some how this back fired on me as this really cooled down fast. It is like eHarmony all over again. Which reminds me that we still have not received our pass word. I am always seeing their ads on TV and I want to scream "Bull-S&^%"
As I had stated before I had one friend tell me to got to Craig's list. Some how I think that is probably the most lowest I could go to. Adopt a guy .com is just asking for losers, like a mail order bride. Do I need a man to take care of? I have 2 kids already, it is the same thing.
So I was thinking back to a show that I used to watch, where they couple was looking for an apartment in New York. How do people in New York find apartments that are in rent control areas?...... they read the obituaries. It is like stalking for a parking spot at the store. So how do I apply this same mentality to dating? Read the legals in the paper, and look for divorces. Not all papers print this but you can also look at the county court house and see if they have a web site where all orders that have been entered are posted. It might sound a little pathetic at first but how much better is it than these web site? Do I need to remind you how well they have been working for me so far. Divorces normally take a year, that is enough time to get over someone so you are good to go.
So it that my next stop, the obituaries? or do I keep plugging away? Something eventually does have to happen right? or am I stuck in dating purgatory?
Let remove the upgrade and go back....lets see if the janitor's stop emailing me and a half way decent guy is out there.
